With martial arts, if you are too aggressive, it teaches you about patience, inner calm, and humility to provide you with balance, all in the name of maximizing your results.
On the other end of the spectrum…
If you are too passive, it teaches you about confidence, taking risks, and overcoming fear to provide you with balance, also in the name of maximizing your results.
When it comes to reaching your potential, you really do have to understand and experience both hard and soft energies. Many people spend their entire lives with one main type of energy, and they find success with it.
In our style, Choy Lay Fut Kung Fu, I love taking people through the process of hitting pads. The audio feedback is the magic. If you are too tense, you won’t get the loud smack noise, you’ll just get a thud. And of course, if you are too pensive, you will hear that you are not producing the wonderful smack noise.
It requires that delicate philosophical balance of knowing when to be relaxed and knowing when to exert tension. You have to know how to maneuver both energies to produce the sound.
I love using the example of an olympic level gymnast. Watch that person doing the parallel bars, or the rings, or some such even that requires a tremendous amount of strength and dexterity. Watch their facial expressions. More often than not, it is blank, and sometimes, even very peaceful.
It’s no secret to high performing athletes – a calm mind results in a calm body, which results in maximized performance.
The antithesis to calm is anxiety. Anxiety is shared by both aggressive and passive mindsets. At it’s core, it is all about the fear of failure. Because of that fear, some act out, and others withdraw.
Learning to calm the mind rids that anxiety. Having said that, it is good to have a little of the anxiety to motivate and propel you further.
Is it any surprise that most traditional martial arts practices have some form of meditation?